pregnancy stress

"Don't stress if you can't get everything done that you had planned each day. The baby won't know if the housework isn't done!"

"It's okay to tell co-workers that you're not interested in their advice. Every pregnancy is different."

"Remember, every problem has a solution, and confiding in someone who's close to you or who you think can offer help or support is a step forward. Don't be afraid to talk to your partner, OB, or midwife."

"Don't stress about how you look. You're performing a miracle — growing a person inside of you — and that's a fantastic accomplishment."

"If you trust your OB, let her do her job and follow her recommendations; if you don't, find a new doctor who you do trust. You should never be afraid to call your provider with big and small problems."

"Don't stress about tough times with your partner. A baby tests any couple's relationship."

"Don't stress about things like food or weight. Just be sensible. There's no need to give yourself an anxiety attack over the pint of ice cream you just finished. Take it as your special reward for everything you've accomplished so far in your pregnancy, and move on."

"If you're doing everything in your power to make healthy choices, don't worry so much. Women have been having babies since well before we knew what to do and what not to do."

"Mothers-in-law don't know everything!"

"Don't stress too much about things in the environment you think might harm your baby, like standing too close to the microwave or pumping gas. Remember, the vast majority of babies are born healthy."

"Don't worry about labor. It is what it is. Just educate yourself on your options, and be ready to make informed decisions. Beyond that, just take a deep breath and go for it. It's not as bad as you think it'll be."

"Don't stress about how the baby is fending in the womb. It's a roll cage, but your baby is probably comfortable in there."

"Every little twinge doesn't mean something is wrong."

"No matter what decisions you make, someone will always disagree. Try not to let the negative comments upset you, and if you're really worried about something, talk with your doctor or a nonjudgmental friend."

"There's no such thing as a stupid question, especially for first-time mothers. Being pregnant and birthing a child are unique experiences, and a woman will never know what it's all about until she's actually done it herself."

"It's okay if you don't have everything ready for your baby. Newborns don't need a whole lot in the beginning."

"When I accepted heartburn, back pain, lack of sleep, and moodiness as a normal part of pregnancy, they didn't seem to bother me as much anymore."

"If you're worried about being a good mom, you probably have nothing to worry about. My husband keeps telling me that bad mothers don't worry about whether or not they'll be good moms."

"I had never really been around children, and I made mistakes, but as long as you love your baby and are careful with the important stuff, you can't harm him or her with small mistakes. You'll soon get comfortable with the routine."

"Don't stress too much over all the "rules" pregnant women now have. A bath warmer than lukewarm won't lead to disaster. If you accidentally eat a soft cheese you're not sure is safe, there's no use worrying after the fact. Our mothers had fewer restrictions than we do, and we turned out fine."

-babycenter.com

31 weeks

dah lama rasanya tak cerita pasal baby kan. alhamdulillah baby sehat, aktif menendang nendang. takpe, tendang je sebab tak saket pun, best tengok perut gerak gerak hihi.

baby dah 31 weeks dah. nak masuk 8 bulan :). sebulan lebih je lagi ni. berdebar debarrrrr!!!

checkup baru baru ni doktor cakap "baby kecik macam mak dia". owh, mak dia kecik ke nih? adakah doktor salah pandang ataupun aku salah dengar? pipi sudah bulat bagai di pam pam. berat baby adalah 1.4kg je. masa tu 7 bulan ++. doktor ckp sila minum susu dua kali sehari sampai berat baby 2kg. then boleh minum sehari sekali. dan jgn tinggal makan obat! yang ini memang ye, kadang kadang adalah terlupa. tangguh tangguh sampai terlupa nak makan obat. ini la akibat bertangguh. tetibe ada moral of the story, ok cukup.

scan kali ni lagi best! nampak muka babyyyyyyy!!! nampak mata dan hidung! tengah tengah scan tu tetibe muka baby mengadap kitorang. wah! nampak lubang hidung haha! pastu ada suara berkata kata "macam hidung mak dia, besar" hoh?! cis. encik suami! ada ke dia kata hidung i besar? ok, fine, memang pon hidung besar. tak pe, hidung besar comel comel haha! sedapkan hati. anak lelaki kalau ikot muka mak, sejuk mata memandang orang dulu dulu kata. mesti anak lelaki mak comel seperti mak dia haha! yang penting baby selamat dilahirkan, sihat walafiat :)

next checkup 3 julai nanti. masa tu dah 8 bulan ++!! owh, hampir tibaaaaa!!!! degupan jantung semakin laju, tahap kedebaran dah maximum. kepada kawan kawan yang disayangi, doakan saya ok. doakan saya dan baby selamat dan sehat :)

31 weeks :)

source: http://www.babycenter.com

hero saya

sedang angah memasak di dapur, tiba tiba sahaja angah berlari ke ruang hadapan menjerit jerit kegelian. apakah? kenapakah? mengapakah? perasaan ingin tahu membuak buak dalam diri ini. terus sahaja aku mendapatkan angah untuk bertanyakan kenapa, mengapa dan apa. rupanya sedang angah memasak, seekor belalang kunyit sebesar tapak tangan terbang dengan riang ke arah angah. apa lagi, melompat lompat la dia. besar ok belalang tu. yang tak boleh blah, belalang tu terbangggg!!!!! bukan lompat je siap terbang! mana nak lari? belalang tu siap terbang ke arah mangsa. aku dah la penakot akan belalang besar tu, ib pon fobia dgn benda terbang. jadi, takkan tak yah masak kot kan? ok, penyelesaiannya tunggu encik suami pulang dari kerja.

encik suami masuk je rumah, terus menerpa ke arah beliau. sian dia tak sempat duduk pun. tapi ini masalah yang sangat besar! belalang tu memang nak kene. kacau org masak. terus je bitau hal ini kepada encik suami. encik suami gelakkan pula. cis.

encik suami memulakan operasi menangkap belalang tersebut. aku juga turut serta, melihat je pon (kunun macam berani masa tu). masa tu tengah potong potong kacang panjang kat dapur ambil melihat encik suami menangkap belalang. owh! belalang tu terlepas dan terbangggg!!! dengan kacang panjang kat tangan, aku gagahkan diri berlari sepantas yang mungkin menyelamatkan diri. tak boleh blah belalang tu terbang terbang dengan riang. susah tahap nak tangkap belalang tu. berapa kali cobaan dah. aku dah standby kat pintu depan kot kot belalang tu sampai ke ruang depan ke kan.

akhirnya!! belalang tersebut berjaya di tangkap! encik suami letak belalang tu jauh jauh, kat luar nunnnn tu kat lorong masuk jalan taman. lega tahap nak buat kenduri doa selamat. selepas itu, kami memasak dengan aman sekali. lauk yang dimasak pula sangat sedap haha! yang itu tipu je :p

p/s: terima kaseh kepada suami terchinta, muah muah!

2 bulan tidak lama

owh, 2 bulan lagi!!

cepat la pulakkkk. tapi tak sabar tapi adalah takot. owh berdebar debar dupdupdup

semoga semuanya berjalan dengan lancar

semoga baby sihat, sempurna sifat zahir dan batin :)

semoga dapat melahirkan baby secara normal. (owh, tolonglah supaya tidak bedah2, saya takot!)

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ye, perempuan ini kecoh kan padahal lagi 2 bulan haha

tapi serius perasaan dah macam macam

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Tagged by: FIFFY

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1 : adakah anda rasa anda hot?
hot sangattttt!!! haha
ok, pegi muntah sekarang

2: upload wallpaper yang anda guna sekarang.


3 : cerita pasal wallpaper tersebut.
dengan harapan baby comel seperti itu :p

4 : bila kali terakhir anda makan pizza?
kelupaan

5 : lagu paling latest anda dengar.
I'm talkin' bout blue eyes, blue eyes, What's the matter, matter
Blue Eyes - Mika

6 : apa yang anda buat selain menyelesaikan tag ini?
membuat kerja dgn tekun skali

7 : selain nama sendiri, anda dipanggil nama apa?
mijot, sulong, meezameez, errrmmmm meeza the gorgeous barangkali haha

8 : tag lagi lapan orang.
wah, ramai plak nak di tag. ok sesape je yg baca,
anda di tag!!

9 : siapakah orang no. 1 kepada anda?
rakan saya mungkin? hihi

10 : katakan sesuatu kepada orang no.5
skip

11 : no. 3 ada hubungan dengan sapa?
skip

12 : bagaimana pula dengan no.4
skip

13 : pesanan kepada orang no.6
skip

14 : kata2 cinta untuk orang no. 2.
skip

15 : adakah no.7 dan no.8 mempunyai persamaan?
ada barangkali hihi

16 : berikan 5 perkara yang anda tawu tentang orang yang mengetag anda.
si gadis cantek, berambut panjang, berkulit putih, ermm lagiiii..ape lg fiffy eh hihi.. baru aje kenal dgn gadis cantik ini maka tak byk yg tau :)

17 : perasaan anda semasa buat tag ini.
senang hati

18 : adakah anda tau si razman itu sengal
sape tuuu? razman anak pak kassim ke ni?

19 : gay or less?
alhamdulillah syukur kerana tidak tergolong dlm golongan ini :)

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TAMMAT